Funeral speech at the funeral

In Russia, we were told of howthe deceased was a man that he did for a kind. Speech at the funeral is, on the one hand, a tribute to his memory, at the same time - a way to relieve the grief of relatives. Heat, coming from the soul, when a person shares his memories, acts as a balm to the wound inflicted by loss. With this in mind, one must prepare for a mourning event. It is necessary to say about how a person is personally dear

you, which in his life he achieved, which was especially valuable to him.

What to include in the speech?

Speech at the funeral should be positive andmournful. It is not necessary to describe in detail the biography of the deceased. The main emphasis is on the good qualities of his soul. Only when faced with the departure of a relative into another world do you understand that the material, to which we all aspire, is dust. Not for the fact that he knew how to earn, people remember. But, rather, because he could share what he had accumulated, he saw who needed help, and knew how to say a kind word in time. Therefore, a farewell speech at a funeral usually contains facts that on the positive side characterize the deceased. His personality is described from this point of view. It is not a sin to tell about whom he was kind to, what he did and so on. Speech at the funeral must necessarily contain information about what the deceased was useful to society. (Let it be a small favor - but it was also!) It is necessary to finish the speech with a phrase about how deeply you mourn and regret loss. For example: "I will miss your timely advice" or "I will miss your wise words" and so on.

Who makes a speech at a funeral?

It is not specifically established who should speakmourning words. Usually, this is assigned to a person who can control emotions, from the close ones of the deceased. Funeral speeches at the funeral should not be accompanied by hysterics and tears. It is desirable that a person who knows how to create an atmosphere of solidarity and trust can speak. It will be easier for relatives, and the soul of the deceased will not suffer. It is recommended to prepare the words in advance. The printed version is better to have with you. So a person will be able to spy if he forgets everything from excitement and grief. It is best if the deceased relatives (children, spouse) say the mourning words.

A few tips

Speech at the funeral should not be prolonged (notmore than five minutes). Consider the degree of grief of the participants in the ceremony. Long ranting will only intensify their pain. But a few mean words are not suitable for a mourning speech. The stupidity of speech can offend those present, humiliate the deceased. In the very performance you need to put warmth of the soul, make it touching, but not plaintive. We must vividly describe the most important for the deceased moments, which he valued above all else. The fact is that the soul of the deceased at the moment of burial is still between the worlds. It will be easier for her to leave if she feels the peace and peace of her grieving relatives. It is believed that with our turbulent mourning emotions we just keep and disturb the soul of the deceased.

In conclusion, I want to say that the mourning wordsmust be well prepared and thought out so that the person who utters them will be able to convey the degree of his respect for the deceased and the strength of regret for his decease.