We all choose our own style of communication and behavior. The reasons for this each have their own, as well as the set goals. But there is something that unites us all. What everyone wants is respect. This is one of the most significant factors for each of us. We respect some people and expect that they will treat us with respect.
And how often do our expectations coincide with reality? Most likely, not as we would like. Respect is what you need to achieve.
First and foremost is your respect for yourself. Think for yourself. Would you respect a man who does not love himself? Of course not. For what? Respect for the good, positive, distinctive in a person, but for people who do not appreciate themselves, it is very difficult to notice such qualities.
Every knot has something good, something, thanwe are different from the others. If you come home from work every day and feel broken and unhappy, you should think about the need for change. Do not immediately change anything drastically. Just stop and think that you are pleased that you are happy, and what makes you feel alive. Make a habit of pleasing yourself and giving yourself a rest. Show yourself to respect. This will serve as a good help in becoming you as a self-sufficient person. Important will be a solid, certainly suitable time and place appearance.
The second rule is considered to be necessityrespect others. It is a necessity. Respect everyone you deal with in order to receive respect. It is very important to remember always. Everyone deserves respect. Every person has something for which he can be respected. If you can not find this quality from any of the people you meet, it's worth thinking about the fact that we are all worthy of respect simply because we are People. All of us gave birth and raised our mothers not to be treated disrespectfully. And I do not want to think that we are dealing with unworthy people. Hence, the people around us should be worthy of respect.
Be confident. Do not be afraid to defend your point of view, take the initiative and, if necessary, engage in self-promotion. We are often too afraid of condemnation or ridicule. Do not be afraid of what might not be. You must believe in yourself and make sure that you are heard and considered with your opinion. I also want to add one more item here. It is sometimes very difficult for each of us to refuse someone. We are often asked for help, harmful or simply unhelpful for work, image or personal time. We must clearly and firmly abandon the habit of yielding to everyone. Learn to answer "NO". "Rags" are not respected.
If you know exactly what you want fromlife, and have a clear plan on how to achieve this, you will move the moment to a privileged circle of purposeful people. Knowing this, you can, without fear, take the initiative and offer your help in interesting projects for you. Of course, you will meet all of the above points. People who have no purpose, will admire you. And this means that you, at last, have received respect. This is important for everyone.
