Who invented the ideal qualities of a man?

Why are the qualities of men more concerned about women? After all, it's not a secret for anyone that the "strong" of this world also dream of resembling the famous heroes of novels and movies that conquered the whole world with courage, nobility and other gentlemanly qualities.

And it is enough for the men themselves to associate themselves with those, whereas women must certainly instill these book qualities of heroes to their chosen ones.

For her

Women are sure that the main featurethey must possess themselves - this is beauty. But to the necessary qualities, men are credited, among all others, with the ability to earn money. In addition, their chosen ones should also be beautiful, generous, intelligent, strong, and courageous.

The thing is that the concept of "perfect man"for women and men has a different meaning. So, women of the quality of an ideal man equate to the status of a good husband. In their opinion, the good qualities of men are those that they like. He should help around the house, prefer hunt or fishing together with her pastime, in no case to spend money on friends. Best if he gives them to his wife for a new dress. Paradox. A woman searches for a good husband all her life, focusing on the best qualities of a man. But as soon as he finds it, he mercilessly destroys all those qualities that he once saw in him. Once elected to subjugate her with gallantry, and today, manifested by him in relation to an unfamiliar lady, politeness becomes a weighty reason for another scandal. So maybe, dear ladies, it is necessary to look initially for an obedient husband, and not for an ideal man?

Male look

According to the beliefs of the descendants of Adam, a real man -he is a reliable friend and a man of his word. Honesty, dedication, loyalty, courage, honesty are those qualities of a man, based on which, the father brings up his son. Men's opinion on this score is more based on high moral principles, although following them is not always characteristic of the modern representatives of the stronger sex. In addition, they are better than women who know what qualities of men attract beautiful ladies. But the inherent nature of selfishness prevents them from improving their character for the sake of their loved ones. A man sincerely believes that you just need to love, and not for some quality.

And, unlike a woman who, at least infirst time, trying to veil some of his shortcomings, the man is open. "Love me for who I am," he says of his behavior, which women can not understand and appreciate. Although in their list of requirements for the elected demands, honesty and openness do not stand in the last place.

From the above, we should draw one conclusion: the ideal man - the image that women paint themselves in order to find a worthy companion of life. And the stronger the love of a partner, the more obvious are the positive qualities of a man. As soon as the senses cool down, they mysteriously dissolve into the life of their life together. It turns out that the ideal man for a woman is the one she loves. So the man, in order to correspond to the ephemeral parameters, it remains only to reciprocate.